We have all heard the phrase Relax, Relate, Release when we are dealing with stressful things in our lives. We sit down and try to "wooo-sah" our way through hard times. The trials, keep coming and we keep humming until our kettle whistles and we boil over from frustration. So what do you do?
I beg to differ from the phrase above. I know, I know it is an age old adage, but sometimes it is time to clean the cobwebs out of our thoughts and look at things from a fresh perspective. I say that although the words are good...they are in the wrong order. I propose that we instead Relate, Release and Relax.
So, what exactly am I talking about?
Relate -
We all want to feel like we are a part of something meaningful and worthwhile. We want to be loved and respected. We want confirmation that what we strive to do, when done for the appropriate reasons, is right and earnest. We want relationships that embody all things love.
The ultimate relationship...the root to all relationships and relating is Christ. He is the true example of love, kindness, selflessness and joy. Once you are in relationship with Christ, watch how your life changes: your mood, your point of view (you have a new positive outlook on life), your situations...they all change for the better. Why? Because you are not alone. You don't have to walk the pathway, go through that trial, celebrate that triumph alone, anymore! God is with you...he will never leave you or forsake you.
Release -
When you are going through trials and struggles you now know you are not alone. You have Christ to depend on to see you through any storm. Worry, doubt, fear, addictions, grief, pain...you can "Give it All to God". Through prayer, and communion and simply talking with Jesus about your problems, the discernment of what to do to resolve your situation will come to light. This revelation comes in many forms...a friend with a comforting word, a sermon heard on T.V., an announcement on the radio, words read in a paper or a magazine. The Lord talks to us in many ways (and yes, sometimes even directly).
Relax -
Once you have Christ as the focus and love in your life, you can relax. You know that God's got it! No worries, no fears...just peace and contentment. Now that would make a happy day!
So, you see...there is no greater love and all this time we've had it wrong...do a little relating, releasing and relaxing.
Be Blessed
~TQ
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